Thursday, June 21, 2012

Self- actualization

Long time ago there was someone asking me as degree nurse, what theory do i used in my nursing care. I spoke to her boldly that i am using 5S Maslow's hierarchy of needs. This person humiliated me by saying that it wasn't a theory from a nurse.  Today i had learned more about it.

5S Maslow's hierarchy of needs

The highest level in Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory is self-actualization. It is talking about when an individual able to maximize their potential. Self-actualization includes not only excelling in one's life and work but also devoting oneself to higher social goals; one does not seek fame and glory but finds peace and contentment in the inner satisfaction that comes with being the best that one can be.

 How can we as a nurse help people to achieve self-actualization?
1. We should teach people to be authentic, to be aware of their inner self and to listen to their inner voice.
2. We should teach people to transcend their cultural conditioning and become world citizens.
3. We should help people dicover their vocation in life, their calling or destiny, so that they understand the importance of finding the right career and the right partner.
4. We should teach people that life is precious, that there is joy to be experienced in life. If people are open to seeing the good and joyous in all kinds of situations, it will make life worth living.
5. We must accept people as they are and help them to understand themselves. With this knowledge of their abilities and limitations, they can know what to build upon, what potential they have.
6.We must see that the person's basic needs are satisfied, including safety, belongingness, and self-esteem.
7. We should teach people to appreciate beauty and the other good things in nature and in life.
8.We should teach people that self-control is good and complete abandonment is bad. It takes self-control to attain one's goals in life.
9.We should teach people to look beyond trifling problems and grapple with the serious problems in life, such as injustice, pain, suffering, and death.
10. We must teach people to make good choices in life and how they can do it.

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Love message to Father Lord

Dear Father Lord, i am in love..... finally someone found me along the path of my life. As i walk along with this man, Father Lord i hope that you would bless us and give him wisdom to lead our path. Father Lord, please be our light along the path. *_*

Blessed are the moment i chose to listen to you, Oh God. Blessed are the time we fasted and pray for Your blessing and agreement towards this relationship, Oh God. Blessed are both of us were chosen by You, to serve the youth and your people.  God, i don't know how far you want me to serve and how should i serve you in your ministry.... but God....i hope it is Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

Father Lord, i am only a weak and fragile lady. I might not be capable in your ministry but i would pleased to be chosen by you, Oh Lord.





I am blessed to be a nurse to love and care your people, Oh Lord. I am blessed to work with a christian physician. I am blessed to have a lovely family. I am blessed to have a christian boy friend. Father Lord, for this so much you have blessed me.....what can i do for you? Show me thy way.
Thank you Father Lord for being so thoughtful to me and being so understanding. ^_^ Thank you Father Lord, for you have shown me and proved to me thy way which is always right and perfect.
I shall not doubt thy plan on my path........ i love you , God. Please make my heart pure for You and give me wisdom and faith to continue walking with you.